able to help those in need and we have to realize, too, that those little ones are in heaven with the lord himself, and we have to move after this grieving period from why to what, not just why me, but after we grieve, what now? the bible will tell us take hellacious things like this and use it it it for their purposes and i don't understand that and i don't think we will until we gets to the other side, but that's what god tells us. >> kelly: and many would say that that is the mystery of god, the romans 12, weep with those who weep and mourn with those who mourn and that's what the reading has to do with the president and others say mourn with the community and pray with the community. >> that's true and it's interesting, too, how the things are going well, so often we do not look to god or talk to god yet, after a tragedy, we're the first to blame god. like, god where were you? and god's always where he's been, but it breaks the heart of god to see this yet, we're not made as robots, we have a choice and to say that our choices is just private is totally bogus because the choices and de